20 years ago this phrase in the song from the Guys and Dolls musical greeted Richard and me as we walked into his parents’ house to tell them we were engaged. His brother was blasting it on the stereo. I always smile when I think of that funny song… Our song?
Some of the things that Richard brings to our marriage are humor, steadiness, adventure, and kindness. I didn’t know all of the facets of Richard’s character when we decided to marry. Some things have been a surprise (I had no idea how much of a thrill-seeker he is) and some things were there but have developed over time, such as his humor. He has always impressed me by his depth of understanding of the gospel and his ability to explain things simply.
It is the small gestures that have meant the most to me in our years of marriage. In 2000, when I was sick in the hospital, Richard stayed with me during the most difficult times. One day he sat down on the bed and read aloud to me. At each page turn, he kissed me on the cheek. I felt a greater measure of love and fulfillment through his kindness to me than from any exertion I had made seeking after my own needs.
During this and many other times he has been the only one who could make everything better. I’m grateful that I met him when I was only 18 years old. From the beginning, I admired him, and 22 years later I can say that I still do.
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