One in Christ

Richard and I were guests on the last night of youth conference this week. We enjoyed dinner and then watched the youth assemble this work of art. Earlier in the week, each youth was given a rectangle tile to paint with some basic lines and instructions. Most pieces had simple colors and lines with very few clues about what they were actually creating.

As the sun set on the last evening, they lined up to affix their tiles to the large board as we listened to their recorded testimonies expressing why they wanted to walk with Jesus. When the art was complete, we sat quietly as we admired it and listened to music. In a world of virtual everything on small screens, this tangible, large object lesson was refreshing.

The art made me think of the process of building a testimony, day by day. It made me think of gathering Israel, one person at a time. Painting a tile could represent faith that our righteous actions will make a difference. It was also a visual reminder that the church is one in Christ, and each person brings something essential as they walk with the Him. What a beautiful object lesson with so many applications!

For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ.

1 Corinthians 12:12

Also the body hath need of every member, that all may be edified together, that the system may be kept perfect.

Doctrine and Covenants 84:110

Friends I didn’t know I had

I was sad to miss my regular temple appointment because I had a cold, and my friend sent this message which really touched my heart.

I learn something each time I attend the temple, and this time, a lesson of belonging reached me even though I had to stay home.

May I have eyes to notice those who are missing or withdrawn. May I have the courage to reach out to them and help them feel seen.

Some good advice about being in-laws

FYI, I hit the mother-in-law jackpot. Also, I love my son-in-law and daughters-in-law and want to keep our relationships happy.

This talk had some good counsel. Here are a few of my favorite points:

Mothers-in-law want more connection and daughters-in-law want more space. DILs, the more you include, the less they intrude. MILs, the more you intrude, the more they will want to exclude.

Treat daughters-in-law and sons-in-law just like your children.

Mothers-in-law want thanks and daughters-in-law want praise.

Quit Taking it Personally. (Q-Tip)

Treat your mother-in-law the same as you would your mother, including equal time with grandchildren and family gatherings.

Don’t intrude in a marriage or offer unsolicited advice about raising children.

Respect one another.

The boring answer

Lately, when someone asks me what I’m up to, I have boring answers. The most immediate project that comes to mind is that I’m pulling a lot of weeds each day.

I’ve cleared out all the periwinkle and weeds from our south beds. BIG accomplishment.

Last summer I was under a lot of stress and felt unwell, so this summer I am thankful that I’m pulling weeds and managing life’s demands in gentler, healthier ways.

We’ll have new plants someday, but for now I am enjoying clear beds.

Pretty Lucky

“I think I’m pretty lucky to be able to go to Young Women camp.” -Richard

Richard helped represent the bishopric on Friday night, which means he got to hear the girls’ testimonies and see how everyone had bonded during the week. He also enjoyed some wonderful food. Good things happen at Young Women camp.

We said goodbye to our trees.

We decided it was time to take out the last two big Cottonwood trees from our backyard. It wasn’t easy to say goodbye to their rushing leaves, shade, and the privacy they offered, but now we have a mountain view. The yard feels bigger, too.

Rare couple shots

It is so rare to find photos of us as a couple. Thanks to Shari for sending these to me and thanks to Susanna for taking them. I don’t remember why I was being so silly. 😚

We celebrated our 31st anniversary last month, and I think these photos capture who we are together.